Sex Party VERIFIED
Sometimes a party does a consent speech at the door. Others simply trust that attendees read the whole invite email. At a small sexy shindig I attended in a hotel room among some experienced friends, one woman stood on the ottoman and gave a condensed consent recap.
A well-stocked party will have plenty of condoms, lube, and latex gloves around, but if you have a preferred brand or a latex allergy, bring your own. Some will get fancy and even have mouthwash for sanitizing between oral adventures. Oh, and for the love of Streisand, please take a shower before the sex party. Seriously, dude.
If you've never been to a sex party, what do you picture them looking like? Mysterious, elite soirées featuring masks and creepy rituals, à la Eyes Wide Shut? Sweaty orgies where people penetrate one another as a way of saying hi? Some other intimidating, sordid fuckfest that's probably best left to more extroverted, hyper-qualified sex-havers than the likes of you?
Maybe you've wanted to hit up a sex party for a while, but you aren't sure where to go. Most big cities have get-togethers and clubs that cater to multiple price points and sexualities, and plenty host special events or parties for first timers.
You can also feel out whether you know people who might want to DIY a party with you. Sarah, 30, grew up in Christian household in Oklahoma City, and longed to find a sex-positive, queer-inclusive community where she could explore those parts of herself. At 27, she joined a Facebook group for Oklahoma City atheists. Intimate conversations about sex and relationships within the group helped her meet like-minded friends, whom she began hosting monthly parties for, starting with a manageable group of 12 people. Each one starts with a meeting to go over safe-sex guidelines and make guests aware of one anothers' boundaries.
Fred*, 45, has been attending queer play parties in Oakland for years now. He was recently at a party where he was engaged in a scene with two other people, in the middle of a large room with lots of attendees watching. Everything was going well; the scene was negotiated beforehand, and things were getting hot, but Fred was feeling overwhelmed.
Damn, they couldn't find a hotel to rent to party in they had to use the UPS premises? Shame on you guys no one in the group thought that was a bad idea? Anyway guess yall will find another job. Next time use your head and be a leader instead of a follower.
Part of the focus of the ongoing investigation is a yet-unnamed adult female, who reportedly rented the room and delivered three 15-year-old girls in order for them to "party" with several males, possibly including adults, Portage police say.
"The officer stopped to check the welfare of the juveniles and found them to be under the influence of unknown substances," police said. "These two females reported they had lied to their parents about their whereabouts and were given a ride to the local motel by an adult female (not present), who rented the room for them in order to 'party' with several males."
She allegedly gave 15 minor teens access to alcohol, full run of the house and encouraged them to have sex, according to court documents. At one party, she allegedly handed a drunk boy a condom and shoved him into a room with a 14-year-old girl.
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